By Yang Yang
China Daily, Beijing / Asia News Network
In 2013, nyuhanzi became one of the most popular Internet words in China. In Chinese, it literally means a “female man”, or a man inside a woman’s body. Metaphorically, it means a woman who thinks and behaves like a man, especially men with undisciplined habits.
But for many, it just means independent and tough.
How do you determine whether a woman is a nyuhanzi? Online wags can produce a 20-item list of criteria for just about anything.
Here are some telltale signs from the Internet:
You may be a nyuhanzi if:
– you cannot open a bottle of plain water but keep trying rather than asking for help.
– you like using four-letter words both on- and offline.
– you are “able to change the bottles on water dispensers. (They are often considered too heavy for “weak” girls.)
– you rarely use makeup or seldom take selfies.
– you often don’t bother to wash your face or hair if you’re not going out of the house.
Many nyuhanzi claim they are not favoured by the opposite sex because they are too independent. Some men are put off by them.
“I like nyuhanzi and have very good female friends who drank more wine than me when we dined together. But I don’t want them to be my girlfriend,” Xue Mangmang, a 28-year-old manager of an insurance company in Suqian, Jiangsu province.
However, for many women, the meaning of nyuhanzi goes deeper.
“I think nyuhanzi describes girls who are very independent and tough,” said Li Xiji, 21, a college student in Hunan province. “If they can solve a problem by themselves, they will not ask other people for help. It does not refer only to women who are as strong as a man or who are very brave.”