Erika Ettin: Let’s Talk About Sex

By Erika Ettin
Tribune News Service

WWR Article Summary (tl;dr) Dating expert Erika Ettin shares some real, unedited examples (taken from multiple online dating sites) of profiles where the “sex talk” is simply self-defeating.

Tribune News Service

In this day and age, sex runs rampant throughout pop culture. There are TV shows (“Sex and the City” was my personal favorite!), songs, and plenty of movies that go into far more detail than I care to.

When it comes to looking for a serious, committed relationship online, however, sex and your online dating profile should not mix. Consider the two like oil and water, pickles and ice cream, toothpaste and orange juice … you get the idea.

In its most innocuous form, people imply sex in countless profiles that mention touching and cuddling by the fire. But while cuddling by the fire may sound lovely, your profile is meant for you to talk about your hobbies and personality and what you’re looking for in a partner. Who doesn’t like to cuddle? All that line does is take up extra space on the page when you could be using that prime real estate to win someone over. And I don’t know about you, but I personally wouldn’t want someone I don’t know creating a visual of me cuddling on the couch in my cozy PJs and slippers. Creepy!

Then there is the other extreme, explicitly mentioning sex in your profile. Unless you’re looking for a predominantly physical relationship (which some people are… and that’s okay), this is an easy way to turn many people off.

Below are some real, unedited examples (taken from multiple online dating sites) of profiles where the “sex talk” is simply self-defeating:

1. “I like fishing and travel and sex.”
This was the first line of a guy’s Match.com profile!

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